TMI Tuesday: November 22, 2022

Hello again. Do your TMI Tuesday thang now.

1. Compared to 5 years ago do you care more or less about what people think of you?

Much less. Just before then I lost someone that mattered more than I realised, due to my own mistakes, but included words and actions of people currently in my life. Since then, those people have claimed to know me, but it has become evident that nobody does fully. With the exception of two members of family, I don't value the opinion of me of anyone who claims to know me but doesn't.

2. What is the last self-help book, article or blog post you read? Did it help you?

I don't really recall reading any. However, my family on my mother's side is religious, and so have been through the bible if that counts. I did actually find that helpful.

3. Tell us 3 people you must have in your life.

To find 3, I had to scrape the barrel. I'm not counting family because duh.

So, Jez: my sister from another mister (and by extension I will include her older sister, Stink). Sephie: my neice / surrogate daughter. & Jo, who I will likely never see again, so 2.5 out of 3 it is.

4. Does tech interfere with your personal relationships? How so?

It did at one point many years ago, but not since then. As much as I love tech, I use them to connect with people where applicable. I prioritise present people / by proximity.

5. When you want your partner or friend’s undivided attention, how do you communicate that?

I ask. As I don't really say much, telling people I have something to say or ask usually gets their attention. I can never guarantee it's undivided though.

Bonus: What is your view of love?

"Loving one who loves you (and then taking that vow)... Nice work if you can get it, and if you get it, won't you tell me how?"

 We all need it. It comes fifth after oxygen, sustenance (food and water), and sleep, and warmth / shelter. Just make sure it's in as true a form as you can get it, and not poisoned.

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